I recently wrote a post about my dad turning 50, and the reflections I had of fatherhood in general. I have been extremely blessed with the father I have, but I know that there are many, too many, that aren’t as blessed.
The lack of a father figure in homes today is, in my opinion, the cause of most of society’s problems. I recently read a book called, To Own A Dragon: Reflection of Growing Up Without A Father by Donald Miller. In the back Don gives the following statistics:
63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes—5 times the average.
85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes—20 times the average.
80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes—14 times the average.
71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes—9 times the average.
75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes—10 times the average.
70% of youth in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes—9 times the average.
85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes—20 times the average.
I’m saying all of this for two reasons:
1. We as followers of Christ need to step up and fill this gap. At a minimum, we need to be getting involved with our childrens’ lives. But we also need to reach out to all of those kids who are growing up without that father figure. If that means mentoring, then do it. If that means adoption or foster care, then we should be stepping up. We know what these kids need, and we can give it to them!
2. For all of those that might be reading this that grew up in that situation yourself, you need to know that although you might have had a bad earthly father experience, there is a true and loving father available to you 24/7. Below is a talk Don gave last year at Mars Hill Bible Church about his book.
God Is Fathering Us — Donald Miller (Don begins at 11:50)